Oscar-winning composer AR Rahman and his wife Saira Banu have decided to part ways after nearly three decades of marriage. The announcement, which came through Rahman’s emotional social media post, marked a poignant moment in the couple’s life as they revealed their struggles and their decision to separate.
Rahman shared the news on X (formerly Twitter) on November 19, expressing the pain of the decision while reflecting on the unforeseen end to their journey together. In his heartfelt note, he wrote, “We had hoped to reach the grand thirty, but all things, it seems, carry an unseen end. Even the throne of God might tremble at the weight of broken hearts. Yet, in this shattering, we seek meaning, though the pieces may not find their place again.” He also thanked their friends for their support and requested privacy as the couple navigates this challenging chapter.
The tweet read: “We had hoped to reach the grand thirty, but all things, it seems, carry an unseen end. Even the throne of God might tremble at the weight of broken hearts. Yet, in this shattering, we seek meaning, though the pieces may not find their place again. To our friends, thank you for your kindness and for respecting our privacy as we walk through this fragile chapter.”
Speculation regarding the couple’s separation began circulating on November 19, with reports citing emotional strain as the primary reason behind their decision. According to sources, the strain had created an insurmountable gap in their relationship, leading to the separation.
In an official statement released by Saira Banu’s lawyer, Vandana Shah, further details about the decision were shared. The statement read: “After many years of marriage, Mrs Saira has made the difficult decision to separate from her husband Mr AR Rahman. This decision comes after significant emotional strain in their relationship. Despite their deep love for each other, the couple has found that the tensions and difficulties have created an insurmountable gap between them, one that neither party feels able to bridge at this time.”
The statement emphasized the depth of Saira’s emotional pain, noting that the decision had been made after significant inner turmoil. “Mrs Saira emphasized that she has taken this decision out of pain and agony. Mrs Saira requests privacy and understanding from the public during this challenging time, as she navigates this difficult chapter in her life,” it added.
Rahman and Saira’s marriage, which began through an arranged alliance in 1995, has been one of enduring partnership and shared milestones. The couple has three children—daughters Khatija and Raheema, and son Ameen. Their bond, admired by many, has now come to an unexpected conclusion.
The news has also prompted their son, AR Ameen, to speak out. The young singer shared a brief message on Instagram, appealing to the public to respect the family’s need for privacy during this sensitive period. “We kindly request everyone to respect our privacy during this time. Thank you for your understanding,” he wrote in his Instagram Stories section.
The announcement has sent ripples through fans and well-wishers of AR Rahman, who is known not just for his musical genius but also for his composed and private demeanor. The couple’s separation underscores the complexities of personal relationships, even for individuals who appear to have it all.
While Rahman and Saira have chosen to go their separate ways, the sentiments expressed in Rahman’s message highlight the lingering love and respect they hold for each other. As the composer poignantly noted, their “shattering” experience still carries the hope of finding meaning, even if their journey together has come to an end.
